Today had a chat which i learn something new, a lot of thigs that we experience especially friendship we should apply the PLAIN WATER THEORY.
A quote Friendship is a gift for yourself.
A friend and truelly a friend it is just like a plain water.
It have taste that cannot be explain (maybe sweet or bitter).
It have the colour that cannot be named. (it is transparent)
It have no forms it can take. (it takes any form of a container)
It have no smell that can stink. (smelless)
A friendship is so precious as it is just like plain water where it can quench a person thirst when in need. Water is such an important factor where it plays an important part in everybodys life. Without water no man can survive!
No man is an island.
Friendship is also the same. It is important in all parts of everyones life. Without them around we would have gone bonkus already.
But the effect of the water applies also, Boiling, evaporations and freezing point.
Boiling
although water get boil, after part of the water is evaporated off and left on it own it will again go back to its calm self and remain harmless.
Evaporations
Things although will be forgotten, but it will still lies some where. It will always be around no matter where it will just follow you unknowlingly.
Freezing
Things get soild and cold, but it strength understanding and quite things down. It will become strong where it is stronger then any of other its form.
Water the mother of life, is also a Zen lesson for us to learn. Water the stream of hope and joy.
Learn the way of water.
Monday, December 14, 2009
Friday, November 6, 2009
It is only today, it might not happened again.
It will happened again?
Everything is all subject to the power of impermance, from the day we are born we are subject to this factor with no other disscussion. It is an important factor where not everyone is able accpet it. But we must face it, we grow old, ugly, wear off and later die, being a pill of dust which will be gone in a gust of wind time.
We have to thank this for happening also. Imagine you hate your friend and 1 day you all both found that along was just a communication breakdown where everything happened is along a joke. With this factor it have help us to overcome the feeling of hatrated.
We have always put so many desire in our life, we aim for so many things that in the end where it go? It will soon belong to someone else. We fight for so many things during our life time but have we forgotten that after fighting so long how muchh have we lost.
Maybe some people is so into their working life they lost their friends slowly, soon their family even the mother who love him most will have to wither and die. Then to find out that everything have been lost, having the most power, the most money it does help as all real feelings that is lost is unable to be buy back by money or being call back by a single comand.
Everthing take place for a purpose, it is not there only, it helps, is just like climbing up a flights of stair it bring you to greater heights. We should be broad in our mind and heart being able to accpet everything that is being wash and eroided by impermance.
I think sometimes we are just to protective to our self where we give ourself excusese to not to push ourself where everthing is all the while safe and there is still more rooms for improvement all more time can be use for something but it is all wasted in some other activities. Time is just like a hour glass where the send is just decreasing and gets lesser and lesser.
I sit on the floor today, i am able to do this because i am strong and healthy, but my grandmother is unable to do so. She have problem both sitting and standing up if she sit on the floor. She is also being wash by the god of imperance where nothing helps and able to prevent it from coming. We must do things that we want to do when we are young and healthy but remember dun do the worng things.
No matter how good you are once you start doing the bad thing, it will have comeback one. You might not realise it because we are young and healthy, but when the day we become old, weak, fragile, this will come and haunt us. We are unable to stop this energy from coming, it will still come because we have done wrong. But we must be able to forgive ourself and remine others not to do it anymore.
Things will be over, all just like a cup of water being evaporated off slowly. But as it evapourate the water becomes thicker and sweeter, but when it is the last drop there will be no use as it cannot really save a man who is dehydrating.
Lets put all our hands togetheres and thanks all all activities that is happening around us. It allows us to learn something new which is beneficial to us.
Cheers
Everything is all subject to the power of impermance, from the day we are born we are subject to this factor with no other disscussion. It is an important factor where not everyone is able accpet it. But we must face it, we grow old, ugly, wear off and later die, being a pill of dust which will be gone in a gust of wind time.
We have to thank this for happening also. Imagine you hate your friend and 1 day you all both found that along was just a communication breakdown where everything happened is along a joke. With this factor it have help us to overcome the feeling of hatrated.
We have always put so many desire in our life, we aim for so many things that in the end where it go? It will soon belong to someone else. We fight for so many things during our life time but have we forgotten that after fighting so long how muchh have we lost.
Maybe some people is so into their working life they lost their friends slowly, soon their family even the mother who love him most will have to wither and die. Then to find out that everything have been lost, having the most power, the most money it does help as all real feelings that is lost is unable to be buy back by money or being call back by a single comand.
Everthing take place for a purpose, it is not there only, it helps, is just like climbing up a flights of stair it bring you to greater heights. We should be broad in our mind and heart being able to accpet everything that is being wash and eroided by impermance.
I think sometimes we are just to protective to our self where we give ourself excusese to not to push ourself where everthing is all the while safe and there is still more rooms for improvement all more time can be use for something but it is all wasted in some other activities. Time is just like a hour glass where the send is just decreasing and gets lesser and lesser.
I sit on the floor today, i am able to do this because i am strong and healthy, but my grandmother is unable to do so. She have problem both sitting and standing up if she sit on the floor. She is also being wash by the god of imperance where nothing helps and able to prevent it from coming. We must do things that we want to do when we are young and healthy but remember dun do the worng things.
No matter how good you are once you start doing the bad thing, it will have comeback one. You might not realise it because we are young and healthy, but when the day we become old, weak, fragile, this will come and haunt us. We are unable to stop this energy from coming, it will still come because we have done wrong. But we must be able to forgive ourself and remine others not to do it anymore.
Things will be over, all just like a cup of water being evaporated off slowly. But as it evapourate the water becomes thicker and sweeter, but when it is the last drop there will be no use as it cannot really save a man who is dehydrating.
Lets put all our hands togetheres and thanks all all activities that is happening around us. It allows us to learn something new which is beneficial to us.
Cheers
Thursday, November 5, 2009
How to strike a Balance ?
Recently there are news about young Men going into JB and have "Fun" there. Why do they go there because 1 Main reason they dun get to see familiar people there. Imagine meeting an uncle at geylang. Or your friends at the Tau hua stall where you are with someone strange. Haha.
But seriously stillthink it is not the correct thing to do it. A few of my friend visit geylang quiet often where i seriouly think that it is something seriously need some reflection. I do hang out at geyalng veryoften maybe more often then them. But i am there to do the correct thing and not those stuff to satisfy a MAN beastly desire.
I MAY BE WRONG!
True without them how can our Mum, Aunt, Sister, Cousin, Friend or worst our GF be safe! I indeed agree that they have help maintain a certain balance to help keep the society going and growing properly. 1 religious teacher also tell me that there might not be any stop in this industry, it will only grow and grow. But no matter we think from which angle it is both wrong and right.
Dun you think so.
This ladies sell their beauty for the benefit of the guys where the guys spent and satisfy their needs there and no case of rape or molestation happened.
Also all this ladies are usually from broken families or from family in need usually financial. The need all this guys to help them. Their Guest are their benefactor, they help them, provide them a source of income.
But think in another angle this ladies are people who are sick(mentally), there are so many job outside and they just lazily sell thier body to all the beast where it most of the time do not benefit themself. Some so called PEI TU MAMA responded that they join this industry because there is need of money and this is No. 1 FAST MONEY! No.2 EASY MONEY.
Seriouly you think if it is your MUM (MOTHER) standing there on the street not selling kueh or newpaper but selling thier body for you to study, you dare and still so THICK Skin to use their money?
Those money are not really clean but it is a need! You walk down along Geylang we see so many old aunties trying to bluff those Ah Peh money, it is really disgusting sia. No matter how many times i see i cannot accept it sia. Imagine you one day just walk along the street SUAY SUAY you see your friend [Na Lei keo Gui] (looking for ladies) what is the feelign sia.
Yes it is a SHIOK feeling that i Definetly agree, but how to face all the people sia?
Face your friends, family maybe your clean and clear ancestor who work damn hard till today.
People always say civic and moral lesson is a waste of tme because everyone all also know do good and do not do bad but how many know what to do?
Sometimes what things is done is done but ya i know some people need such service but most importantly play is play do not get the dieases that will kill YOU! It is damn troublesome you cannot die properly, even die le also got problem putting where. The Goverment is very strick about it. You do not get to put it anywhere off any shelf that allow.
I feel most dissapointed is that those with GF, go and play and have all this services. I am dissapointed in you and if you manage to read this i think you know who you are.
You GF (勤守贞洁，希望您是他的真命天子来接她) but you turn the other way and cannot wait and there it goes. You got face to go and see her a not?
She is a innocient soul, no harming motive and just hope to just be with you. But you betray her trust, her energy, her youth. You should really be banish to some where it deserve some reflection.
For those who have not done it but have the intenion of betraying your GF please i beg you turn back now there is still time to change and discussion. There is always a way out! Dun let her be sad, letting her cry is really your fault!
If you are going with your friends please pull your friends away, give them advice, dun dwell with them or allow them to sink in themself, use your hand of courage to pull them back.
苦海无涯，回头是岸！
不要自作，叫他作，或随喜！！！！
I dun know this are all my personal thinking. Yes people say i am not a person who is morally right because i did things that i should not have done but among all the 5 precept i have never break this at all. This is something that will affect a lot of things. It is not about individual but it will affect the family!
I hope thing will be better!
慈光普照， 普照世间， 黑暗的地方。
白衣大士出家日
九月十九日
But seriously stillthink it is not the correct thing to do it. A few of my friend visit geylang quiet often where i seriouly think that it is something seriously need some reflection. I do hang out at geyalng veryoften maybe more often then them. But i am there to do the correct thing and not those stuff to satisfy a MAN beastly desire.
I MAY BE WRONG!
True without them how can our Mum, Aunt, Sister, Cousin, Friend or worst our GF be safe! I indeed agree that they have help maintain a certain balance to help keep the society going and growing properly. 1 religious teacher also tell me that there might not be any stop in this industry, it will only grow and grow. But no matter we think from which angle it is both wrong and right.
Dun you think so.
This ladies sell their beauty for the benefit of the guys where the guys spent and satisfy their needs there and no case of rape or molestation happened.
Also all this ladies are usually from broken families or from family in need usually financial. The need all this guys to help them. Their Guest are their benefactor, they help them, provide them a source of income.
But think in another angle this ladies are people who are sick(mentally), there are so many job outside and they just lazily sell thier body to all the beast where it most of the time do not benefit themself. Some so called PEI TU MAMA responded that they join this industry because there is need of money and this is No. 1 FAST MONEY! No.2 EASY MONEY.
Seriouly you think if it is your MUM (MOTHER) standing there on the street not selling kueh or newpaper but selling thier body for you to study, you dare and still so THICK Skin to use their money?
Those money are not really clean but it is a need! You walk down along Geylang we see so many old aunties trying to bluff those Ah Peh money, it is really disgusting sia. No matter how many times i see i cannot accept it sia. Imagine you one day just walk along the street SUAY SUAY you see your friend [Na Lei keo Gui] (looking for ladies) what is the feelign sia.
Yes it is a SHIOK feeling that i Definetly agree, but how to face all the people sia?
Face your friends, family maybe your clean and clear ancestor who work damn hard till today.
People always say civic and moral lesson is a waste of tme because everyone all also know do good and do not do bad but how many know what to do?
Sometimes what things is done is done but ya i know some people need such service but most importantly play is play do not get the dieases that will kill YOU! It is damn troublesome you cannot die properly, even die le also got problem putting where. The Goverment is very strick about it. You do not get to put it anywhere off any shelf that allow.
I feel most dissapointed is that those with GF, go and play and have all this services. I am dissapointed in you and if you manage to read this i think you know who you are.
You GF (勤守贞洁，希望您是他的真命天子来接她) but you turn the other way and cannot wait and there it goes. You got face to go and see her a not?
She is a innocient soul, no harming motive and just hope to just be with you. But you betray her trust, her energy, her youth. You should really be banish to some where it deserve some reflection.
For those who have not done it but have the intenion of betraying your GF please i beg you turn back now there is still time to change and discussion. There is always a way out! Dun let her be sad, letting her cry is really your fault!
If you are going with your friends please pull your friends away, give them advice, dun dwell with them or allow them to sink in themself, use your hand of courage to pull them back.
苦海无涯，回头是岸！
不要自作，叫他作，或随喜！！！！
I dun know this are all my personal thinking. Yes people say i am not a person who is morally right because i did things that i should not have done but among all the 5 precept i have never break this at all. This is something that will affect a lot of things. It is not about individual but it will affect the family!
I hope thing will be better!
慈光普照， 普照世间， 黑暗的地方。
白衣大士出家日
九月十九日
Monday, November 2, 2009
Being back
Have not been blogging for a few months already and not i am sure that i am back.
I have many wonderful experience to share around where i think it helps mein reflecting my present life. I am very happy that i have so many wonderful experience happening around me where it have beautify so much of my current life.
Although there are challenges to come by, it really spices up my life and memories. I have to say that i thank those of you appearing in my life where you are there to challenge me. It is reallly Challenging but it have make me grown and think.
A lesson to share
Every hand we have is fix with 5 fingers. every time we work with 1 finger the amount of energy is limited and it very fragile. But the whole thing become a different story when you put all 5 fingers together and make it into a fist. A fist is so much stronger and it is able to be a source of strength and protection.
We have to unite and think as 1 to work well and smoothly where things are able to operate smoothly and causing synergy to occur (1+1=3). In the oldern days people use the exchange of meat and animal heart to represent this simple move, isn it so smart of them.
We should all work in 1 mind and one team to have and gain the maximum.
Cheers
Lex
I have many wonderful experience to share around where i think it helps mein reflecting my present life. I am very happy that i have so many wonderful experience happening around me where it have beautify so much of my current life.
Although there are challenges to come by, it really spices up my life and memories. I have to say that i thank those of you appearing in my life where you are there to challenge me. It is reallly Challenging but it have make me grown and think.
A lesson to share
Every hand we have is fix with 5 fingers. every time we work with 1 finger the amount of energy is limited and it very fragile. But the whole thing become a different story when you put all 5 fingers together and make it into a fist. A fist is so much stronger and it is able to be a source of strength and protection.
We have to unite and think as 1 to work well and smoothly where things are able to operate smoothly and causing synergy to occur (1+1=3). In the oldern days people use the exchange of meat and animal heart to represent this simple move, isn it so smart of them.
We should all work in 1 mind and one team to have and gain the maximum.
Cheers
Lex
Saturday, July 11, 2009
My Updates
hi people
I now have my internet but not at a regular basis. I try to come online but most of the time for my family.
So very PS if i do not have updates. Dun get blogger for 3 months le... at last got it man.... thanks a million.
can go my face book to see for more updates...
Cheers
lex
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Singapore our Homeland
hey peoples out there, Seriously i am very very keen to go back to singapore!!!! Seriously, it is terrible here.
People are trying now to protect themself here and sabotage us!!! I dun know is what i presume is correct a not.
People have fun while you are in singapore, you will understand when you are in my shoes.
Singapore is place full of more love and care. Stop complaining about all the things!
You will soon understand !!!
The is always a knife behind a hidden smile... you might not know! haha
Be proud when you sing this:
Marikita raya...
...
...
... majula singapura....
People are trying now to protect themself here and sabotage us!!! I dun know is what i presume is correct a not.
People have fun while you are in singapore, you will understand when you are in my shoes.
Singapore is place full of more love and care. Stop complaining about all the things!
You will soon understand !!!
The is always a knife behind a hidden smile... you might not know! haha
Be proud when you sing this:
Marikita raya...
...
...
... majula singapura....
Thursday, May 7, 2009
I want to know
Hi People Out there
I thank you for viewing my blog... Just wanted to know is it ok that i post all my posting and updates like a video, is it ok???
what do you and comment please post it on my tag board, it will make me imporve better!
What do you think???
Pictures or Video?
all comments are appreciated! :p
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